By Melody Beattie's definition, a codependent person is a person who believes their happiness is derived from other people or one person in particular, and eventually the co-dependent becomes obsessed with controlling the behavior of the people/person that they believe is making them happy. This Co-dependency to Self Discovery is devoted to the one who has let another persons behavior affect him or her, and who is obsessed with controlling that person's behavior. If you find yourself in this situation and are ready to take the journey to self-discovery, this Co-dependency to Self Discovery is for you.