Here's Your Sign for Dating: Sixteen Weeks of Quality Conversations for Long-Lasting Relationships

So, you met someone great, and you have been dating for a while. Do you really know them, and are you ready to be in a committed relationship? Did you ask all the right questions? Do you know how often they talk to their mother? Have they ever considered a different career path? When they say they like to travel, what does that mean? Does that mean camping or a 5-star hotel? Do they have friends? How much do their friends' opinions affect their decisions?
Observations are the key to making sure their words and actions match up!
Written furiously after an incredibly rough date ...
He was 14 years younger than me. We met on Facebook, and he was just sure he couldn't go another day without going out with me. So, I agreed to one date. After we were seated, I ordered, but he didn't order anything, not even water. After about 25 minutes, he said we should go for a drive. I know, I know. Never leave with a stranger on a first date, I did leave with him and get in his car. He had one intention for the date, and if I had asked more questions, I would not have had to go through what I did. I was lucky he wasn't a real creep, though, since I did get in his car, which could have turned out bad. A couple of mistakes I will never make again. But now I have Sixteen Weeks to a Long-Lasting Relationship. This book's questions have helped me not waste time with men who are not on the same path. With the questions, I can usually know before or after the first date if we are going in the same direction.
It seems like we find someone we like kissing, and then we forget to ask important questions. How do you continue to connect with someone and get to know them for a long-lasting relationship?
Here are a few questions from the book. When we ask questions, we need to take some time and observe what their answer means.
What has been your greatest achievement so far?
The answer to this question can tell you what they have worked hard on in their life and what's important to them. It can permit them to brag on themselves. Very insecure people will tell you "nothing." They truly don't believe they have achieved anything thus far in their life. Secure people already know and are proud to share their achievements.
What role does physical attraction play in pursuing a relationship?
You would think the answer to this would be the same with everyone, but it is not! It's important to know how physical attraction affects the person you are with. If their focus is 100% on looks, you will know. They are saying, if you change physically, the relationship is probably over. The problem with that is that no matter what we do, we all change physically.
Ask the questions in the book to get to know the one you love. Also, learn how to say good-bye and when to say good-bye. Get the relationship you want!