But Dad!: A Survival Guide for Single Fathers of Tween and Teen Daughters by Gretchen Gross

But Dad!: A Survival Guide for Single Fathers of Tween and Teen Daughters

Gretchen Gross
175 pages
Rowman & Littlefield Publishers
Feb 2012
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You're a smart guy. You read The Perfect Storm and now you find yourself living it. Your daughter, who yesterday was happy to hang out with you at Home Depot, now cries for no known reason. Last week you were her soccer coach and 'the best dad there ever was, really,' and today on the way home from practice she turned away and stared sadly out the window and wouldn't say a word to you. She's hovering around adolescence and all of a sudden you're flopping on the daddy-deck in a panic. What the heck is about to happen and how are you going to get through this? How can you help her get through these difficult years when honestly, you don't totally understand it yourself? If you're a single dad, it can get all the more complicated. You might not know who or where to go to for the real deal, the inside scoop. When did her body start to change? Where the heck do you buy a training bra, and when? Do you have to take her or can you pay someone else to do it? What about dating? Or the girl clique thing you've heard about. Can't you just ignore it and raise her just like you would a son, just like you were raised?<br><br>This book is for any man raising a tween or teen daughter, but particularly the single man who does or doesn't have full-time custody. This is the definitive guide to helping dad and daughter get past 'survive' and onto 'thrive.' Written for any man raising daughters, the authors geared this book for the single dad who may not have a woman in his life with whom to confer about issues their daughters may be facing like sex, friendships, boyfriends, alcohol and drugs, and personal hygiene. This book covers it all, from what to keep stocked in the bathroom to how to talk about sex without being blown off. The authors help dads gain a better sense of what their daughters are going through, how their bodies are changing, how their relationships are changing, and how best to handle the ups and downs of these challenging years.
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A book all dads of daughters need

My 11 year old hit puberty and it’s been a wild ride. I’m not a single dad; I’m married, but I do most of the “parenting.” I was worried this book wouldn’t really hit because it talked a lot about divorcees and widowers, but most of the book is just dead on exactly what I needed to hear. Tips on how to talk to your tween about her day? Check. What’s normal responsibilities and freedoms for a girl her age? Check. This has given my entire family stuff to talk about. Theres sections about how to be safe online that served as an outline for a very awkward but very necessary full family chat about how we are interacting with people on games and chats, even as my kids tried to derail the conversation. Anyway I’m more touchy/feely than many dads I know, but it was killing me to watch my daughter and I drift apart like the story of the movie “inside out” as she began to find me uncool and shut down all my attempts at understanding her and communicating with her. This book has helped. For whatever it cost, it’s worth many times that. Read more

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Pages 175
Publisher Rowman & Littlefield...
Published 2012
Readers 4