Coping With Bullies: A Gentle Approach

Bullies always have been and always will be. Maybe they're damaged beings who relate to the world by brute force -"Get them before they get me." Or, maybe they're lost souls who have never had a chance to feel love. Or, maybe they're just evil beings created to ruin your life.It doesn't matter. You're not Jeanne D'Arc, nor are you Dr. Lister. You're not necessarily here to save the world of pain and social ills. You've got all you can do to get through Life as well as you can. So, there are many ways you can lift yourself up from the strangle-hold of bullies. There are many ways to - gently - remove yourself from the agony of physical and mental stress. You can sit back, focus, think on what happened, and maybe why it happened. Learn to prepare ahead for stormy weather.Let's begin with you.What are you doing to bring this on? Did you do something to encourage this sickening treatment? "ME! I didn't do anything!" Maybe yes, maybe no. Learn possible ways we invite bullying and how to offset it. Bullies often torment certain people because it's so easy. Above all, be good to yourself and as good as possible to others. As you grow older, life does get easier, you get wiser, but it helps to have a firm under-standing of yourself, and others.